One thing we all have in common (and I mean *all* of us) is our desire to feel wanted, to feel needed, to feel like we are part of a community. Even the most introverted person likes to know that they're one of millions of introverts hiding out there in their rooms. But it feels like ever since last year's presidential campaign, and the election, the US is becoming more polarized. And there are some in the recently sworn-in administration who are loudly and explicitly definin